'That's not only inappropriate, it's just plain weird': Boss barges into employee's bathroom to get them after a 1 minute break from a company meeting

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    Is it appropriate for your manager to come into the bathroom and tell you to get back to a meeting?
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    For context. We were in a long team meeting. They took a break to change over presentations. I went to the bathroom because I have digestive issues. Was in there around one minute and my manager comes in to tell me to get back to the meeting as everyone was waiting on me. I am not exaggerating that I was in there one minute. The experience was both embarrassing and demeaning.
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    My-Imaginary-... • 15h ago I'd make the nastiest sound I could and say nothing. or
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    • rightwist 20h ago You and I can talk about that in HR's office when I'm done with this massive smelly sh, boss. F if I'm coming back to that meeting til HR has pulled your head out of your ass. Is that clear enough or do you want to come in here and get your face shoved in this nasty toilet bowl full of my turds?
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    What's he going to do, report me for talking to him that way? This is probably why my career s ks
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    Legion1117 17h ago . That's not only inappropriate, it's just plain weird.
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    AwesomeJB 18h ago • • No, that's not appropriate. You are an adult. Plus, let's face it, most meetings are useless and meaningless.
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    The001Keymast... • 15h ago I would have yelled from the stall, "I'm going to the bathroom not wasting time." Would have to bite my tongue to not add in a f off
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    Strange-Dish14... • 19h ago Oh yeah report them immediately. Do not play around, make a paper trail.
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    AggressiveRhu... • 20h ago I absolutely would be making this supervisor and their boss aware of how you felt about it all. You can bcc their boss, if you don't want to make it obvious you've done so, but I'd definitely address it and create a paper trail for this kind of behavior, should it happen again.
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    Pristine_Resour... • 20h ago Not appropriate at all. Even a bit awkward to talk to someone when you're both using the urinals. See if you can get an accommodation.
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    Final-Natural-8... • 20h ago. 100% inappropriate, depending on previous issues with this person I'd consider reporting them.
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    Starry Eyes007 18h ago It is never appropriate for this kind of behavior unless you've been in the bathroom for 30+ min and someone is worried that you passed out and need medical attention, even then there is a nicer way to go about it.
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    CuteTangelo3137 • 15h ago Absolutely not! This isn't grade schools where you need permission to use the restroom. What an inappropriate thing to do,
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    Goddessviking86 • 20h ago that was very inappropriate of your boss
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    Altruistic_Lock... . 18h ago Absolutely not, that is the biggest evasion. Of privacy. Potential lawsuit
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    chtmarc • 20h ago In my book that's an IMMEDIATE HR issue.
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    BildoBaggens . 19h ago • Top 1% Commenter That's pretty ridiculous. If you have IBS or something that's a disability (in my eyes) and it manager isn't accommodating disabilities. now. Unless you have a history of disappearing to the bathroom for half an hour each day this is totally out of line.
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    geof2001 • 19h ago. I'd wash my hands of course but I'd walk back into that meeting and put my hands all over his back and hands patting and rubbing and thanking him loudly that he let you know everyone was
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    waiting while you were taking a sh and you rushed back as quickly as you could. Maybe take a brief wiff of your hand after and make it seem like maybe you missed something.
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    . xored-specialist • 16h ago Nope, and honestly, you should file a complaint. You can't control that and it's wrong for them to call you out like that.
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    Current-Grade-... 11h ago. No way, it is okay to do a door knock and say "anybody in here, we're starting" or flick the lights in the break room. But not hunting people down, if you had a presentation or something, I could see sending someone out to find you but not to disturb you in a bathroom. My only hope is Al bosses will treat us better than these humans do.

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